Mental Illness and Mental Health

MINISTRY OF HEALTH –VANUATU Mental Health Newsletter January 2019 Welcome to the first Mental Health Newsletter in 2019. The topic for the month of January is Mental Health and Mental Illness. What is Mental Health? The World Health Organisation defined mental health in 2014 as "a state of well-being in which every individual: realises his [...]

Which Archetype Are You?

Ever notice how any successful story throughout history tends to have a similar cast of characters? If you haven't bothered counting, I'll let you know that most characters will fall into one of 12 principal roles, and this explains why and how we can find favourite stories so relatable. Carl Gustav Jung, a famous psychoanalyst, [...]

33 Thoughts About Turning 33

This will be an unfiltered post. No thinking things through. No edits. Just reflections on life, age, and anything else that pops into my head. Here goes nothing: Turning 33 feels weird I feel old at times, especially in my body I still feel like a child at other times too, and I wonder whether [...]

Do the Little Things We Do Matter?

I love the above quote by Lao Tzu. It really highlights to me that all of the little choices we make in life are important, especially in the long run. Not any one choice, or any particular action, unless it is unusually severe or unforgivable. I'm talking about the little things that we do on [...]

20 Fascinating Paradoxes About Life

What is a Paradox? According to the Oxford dictionary, a paradox is a noun that has two meanings: 1. A seemingly absurd or contradictory statement or proposition which when investigated may prove to be well founded or true. 2. A person or thing that combines contradictory features or qualities. I love paradoxes because they are [...]

Ten Traits of Highly Successful People

12 Rules for Life? By now, a lot of you have probably heard of Jordan B Peterson and his immensely popular self-help book '12 Rules for Life: An Antidote to Chaos'. Here are his 12 rules, which make up the chapters of the book: Stand up straight with your shoulders back Treat yourself like someone [...]

How to Become Deliberately Better at Anything

At the start of 2018, I launched an idea called Deliberately Better. Deliberately Better was created with two main aims in mind: It was intended to inspire people to believe in positive change, and It was meant to motivate others to want to put some tangible and small steps into place towards achieving their overall [...]

Adolescent Mental Health in a Rapidly Changing World

October 10th, 2018 is World Mental Health Day Here are the top 10 tips for looking after your mental health, according to The Mental Health Foundation: 1. Talk about your feelings (with people who are likely to listen and not judge) 2. Exercise regularly (30 mins a day, 5 days a week) 3. Eat well [...]

What Makes Some Things Fade Fast, and Others Stand the Test of Time?

After writing this blog for just over three years now, I find it quite interesting to see what types of posts are immediately successful, and which articles continue to be successful over a long period of time. The most popular blog post that I have written since 2015 is titled 'How Have Intimate Relationships Changed [...]

It’s Okay to Still Fall into Life Traps… We All Do!

Life-traps are self-defeating ways of perceiving, feeling about and interacting with oneself, others and the world. If you are wanting to get a sense of what your life-traps may be, the book 'Reinventing your life' by Jeffrey Young is an excellent place to start, as it goes into 11 different ones. If you want a more [...]